My cute friend Erica had a great idea to have a dinner including the moms of boys. There were four families there and each family has four boys (except Erica is expecting baby number 5 in April, gender still to be announced). My wonderful little sister Kellie came with us too. We met at the church and let the boys be boys while we chatted. There was basketball, football, bikes and scooters. Little boy heaven! Then we shared potluck dinner and chatted some more. The other moms had some great advice on how to stay sane with all those little men.
Erica said: She uses a dot system on her boys clothes. The oldest has one dot on each of his clothes tags. The second child has two dots, third has three and fourth ends up with four dots. This way when an article of clothing is outgrown by one of the older boys it simply gets an added dot on the tag and is passed down to the next child. Holy wonderful way to make putting away laundry easier! Genius!! I am totally using this idea!
Angel said: She tries to "inspire rather than require." Obviously there are some things that you must require like don't run in the road, etc. This is such a great way to teach kiddos to make good choices because they can see the value in them rather than just because they have to. I need to figure out how she does it. She said she loves a book called Empowering Leadership or something to that effect, I will have to find out what it was really called.
Anja said: She tries to teach her kids with the communication triangle. For example when she was on bed rest she would draw a picture of the bathroom and show them where they should clean, She would explain how to do it, and then show with her hands the correct way to wipe down the sink, toilet, etc. This way they saw the picture, heard the explanation and then watched the motions they were to copy. 3xs greater chance they will pick up on what they are being taught.
I truly love being a mom of boys and I am so grateful to have so many wonderful friends that are also wonderful moms to teach me to be better. Thank you all!!
Friday evening Janet and Heather just happened to show up at my house, 4 hours away from their houses, and took me out for the night. They had arranged my awesome sister Kellie to babysit my kiddos even. We went to a super delish dinner at Bajio and then headed to Dollar Tree for some superb shopping, as you can see...







































































